research, reviews & real opinions
I break down sex science research, test intimacy products and share (un)hinged opinions on the sex-positive industry
Let’s Talk About It: Opinion pieces, cultural commentary, personal essays, & hot takes.
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Research Sans Headache: translating sex studies, reports, and academic research into human language.
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Worth the Hype: intimacy toy reviews, recommendations, comparisons, and product commentary.
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Inside the Sex Space: industry realities, sextech culture, censorship, trends, and behind-the-scenes events & workshops.
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Let’s Talk About It: Opinion pieces, cultural commentary, personal essays, & hot takes. ✷ Research Sans Headache: translating sex studies, reports, and academic research into human language. ✷ Worth the Hype: intimacy toy reviews, recommendations, comparisons, and product commentary. ✷ Inside the Sex Space: industry realities, sextech culture, censorship, trends, and behind-the-scenes events & workshops. ✷
Kink on a Budget
You don’t need to spend tons of money on pricey BDSM gear; instead, take a stroll at your local store and let your fantasies take control.
Want to Try a New Kink?
According to a 2018 study, 76% of participants want to try a new kink in the bedroom. If you’re one of those 3 out of 4 people willing to explore your curiosities, erotic spanking is for you.
Why does spanking feel so good?
It floods your body with happy hormones (dopamine, serotonin, endorphins).
Your brain loves the play on pleasure and pain–so combining them during your sexy time will enhance your excitement and physical arousal. You can feel a state of transcendence and enter a blissful headspace of ecstasy.
And your overall intimacy and bonding with your partner will increase. Win-Win!
Spanking for pleasure can feel naughty and a tiny bit taboo. Honestly, it’s the best gateway to other BDSM kinks if you or your partner aren’t into that sort of stuff.
ready to stop reading and start doing?
If you’re done overthinking your messaging and ready to sound clear, confident, and intentional, that’s where I come in. I help sextech and sexual wellness brands sharpen their copy, build email systems that convert, and show up with language that actually works and sounds like a real human.
When you’re ready to apply what you’ve been reading, let’s talk.